The Serenity Prayer

This prayer has helped me alot in finding serenity in the most difficult situations and it continues to help me. Thought some of you might need it:


God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.

--Reinhold Niebuhr

Everything is Evertyhing

Feels like ive betrayed the love in my life who has never failed in comforting and bringing me back to life(my blog). Simple explanation of my absence is this: When you are falling down, you dont always realise it or you do but choose to deny it and you end up til you fall down.

There are those of us who simply get up and dust themselves and move on(not always easy), then there are those of us who never get up and lastly those who realise they have fallen, wants to get up but have no idea how to.

Its simple when all else fails in your life, there is only one thing to do, start from the beginning. And you might think there is no beginning but where there is a will there is way and if your will is gone then that is your starting point.

Life becomes way more simplier when you stop fighting it all the time and you stop living in other people's lives and face yours.

Seasons do change but there best thing about it its a cycle that never stops.So summer must leave but it will come back no matter how many times it lives.

The worst thing you can ever do is wake up decades later and realise how you could have changed everything. If you believe in fate, believe that you can change if its not the way you want it to be... You cannot run away from fate, many may argue, but you can change how it takes place.

WAKE UP WAKE UP AND WAKE UP...your time to sleep forever will come dont tempt it.

i trust and have no doubt that:


EVERYTHING IS EVERYTHING

My Everything

Ndinga yhini na ngaphandle kwakho (what would i be without u)

To my dearest mother
You have brought so many women in my life
You have shown me the world and how to try and be a part of it
You, as Jesus serves, served me and every other person in our lives
with love, wisdom,strength and a power that shows we serve a mighty God
You have shown me who is God and to fear Him but Love him and Trust in Only Him
All these women have inspired me tremendously but none like you

To my dearest mother
Youve carried my pains and burdens and that of others
Youve celebrated my victories and that of others
You are Joy. You are Laughter. You are Love

I have watched you sacrfice yourself for others
Ive seen you give your enemy the other cheek as God instructs to and love them
You are a true reflection of God
You are a true reflection of Strength

You have shielded and moulded me over the years. Ive seen you be a teacher not just us to us but your friends as well.

Your humility is what the world needs to live better.You brought me down to earth when i started floating as such i know abantu ngabantu because of all your lessons.

I love you. Continue to bless me with all the inspiratin you bring to my life

You epitomise what every women should be

As I turn 20, I celebrate you as my Number 1 inspirational woman
Phenomonal Woman

Pure Beauty

I always thought she would marry Rowan Cloete while I always pretended that she was me(hides). She was the only reason I watched TV.

I could never specify exactly what made me in awe of this woman but she inspired me because of that. She had this persona about her that demanded respect even in just her smile. She had this ability to lure you even though she was in a mag page or in my tv screen.

I was awfully young back in the simunye days but she was the woman i called a role model whenever the question was asked.. Oh and my dreadlocks(sorry people I wasnt looking at lauryn hill's dreadlocks....claire is the one)

Claire Mawisa has and continues to be my top 31 inspirational ladies

Everything is Everything

Sister Sister

My sisters are everything to me. We fight but we laugh and play at the same time. They continue to inspire me as I was them grow. They are my growth. Aliziwe Miza is my older sister and Mila Miza is my younger one yet they continue to give me power and trength through their beings.

They are without a doubt two of my 31 inspirational ladies

Everything is Everything

August womens month my be over by my 31 ladies arent finished.....

Nkhensani Hlekani nkosi nee Manganyi was born on July 06, 1973. I first met her on Mojo and she gave me one of my first real understanding and glance of natural beauty. I was in awe of this woman who shaved it all off but still had this feminine and power about her.

As if she had stolen my young heart alreadym she founded Stoned Cherrie, one of the defining labels of a great beginning for South African fashion. It is a truly proudly african brand and a true reflection what she stands for and why she has and continues to inspires me...

Everything is Everything

FEEL A SISTA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!